If you are ready to learn how to
attract money, then read this piece. I’m
going to focus specifically on the how-to aspects of manifesting money.
Playfulness
The most important aspect of
manifesting money is to approach it from the right heartset. Think of your
heartset as the overall vibe of your relationship to the activity of attracting
money. How would you describe that relationship? Is it greedy, needy, excited,
hopeful, etc?
If you approach this process from a
place of neediness, clinginess, scarcity, or too much seriousness, you’ll most
likely fail. That’s the right vibe for attracting nothing — or for making
things worse by attracting unwanted expenses — but it’s not the right vibe for
attracting money.
So if you come at this from a place
of saying, “I really need $1000 to pay my rent next month, so I’m going to
focus hard on manifesting it via the Law of Attraction,” well… good luck with
that. But I’d bet against you.
A slightly better vibe is that of
hope, but this is still a pretty weak vibe. Hope won’t get you very far.
A much better vibe is to come from a
place of curiosity and experimentation. Go into a state of childlike wonder.
With this vibe you may begin to generate some interesting results.
An even stronger vibe is to generate
feelings of playfulness and excitement. This is a great vibe for manifesting
money. In the next section, I’ll share a story to illustrate how I do this
with my daughter.
Knowing
When you want to manifest money, it’s
important to know that it’s already there. If it’s hidden at all, it’s hiding
in plain sight, waiting for you to notice it and pick it up. This applies
whether we’re talking about cash found on the ground or opportunities that will
generate cash.
Know that the cash and the
opportunities are right in front of your face. You just have to adjust your
“eyes” to see them. You do this by shifting your vibe — your frequencies of
thought and emotion — to one that’s capable of detecting the money.
It’s fun to think of this
vibe-shifting process as shifting dimensions, as if you’re tuning in to a
different perceptual frequency spectrum. That other reality was there all
along. You just couldn’t see it before because you were tuned in to
incompatible perceptual frequencies, frequencies that made the money invisible
and undetectable by your senses. Maybe you were stuck on the red part of the
spectrum, while the money was hanging out in the blue part.
Obviously your senses pick up a lot
as you go about your day, but you only notice a puny fraction of all that
input. In order to manifest money, you need to tune your senses to bring to
your attention useful input that you’ve been subconsciously dismissing as
irrelevant background noise. This tuning process takes some time, but you can
definitely do it.
Lately I’ve been teaching my
daughter Emily (age 10) how to manifest coins. I do this by turning it into a
game. When we’re out walking together, I challenge her to see if she can find
more coins than I can.
The first time I did this, she was
really bad at it. I found several coins during our walk together, often coins
that she walked right past without even noticing. Instead of finding coins, she
didn’t notice anything. The coins didn’t register within her perceptual reality.
Later on she began noticing things
that were close to coins, but not coins. She found bottle caps, paper
clips, scraps of paper, and coin-like smudges on the floor — everything but
coins. I kept pointing out to her that there are coins everywhere, but you have
to tune in to the “coin abundance frequency” to see them. Each time I found a
coin and showed it to her, I could tell it was gradually helping her tune in to
the right perceptual frequency.
One reason she was bad at this game
was that she was tuning out the possible existence of coins everywhere she
walked. She just didn’t think there could be that many coins hiding in plain
sight. By demonstrating to her that the coins were indeed there and that she
was simply failing to notice them, I helped shift her beliefs. She stopped
thinking of the game as something outside her control (relying on luck or
chance), and she began thinking of what she could control (her open-mindedness
and attentiveness).
At first when she would walk past a
coin, and I’d pick it up and say, “Look at this, Emily. There was a nickel
there, and you walked right past it! Your eyes definitely saw it because you
were looking in that direction, but the coin didn’t register in your mind. You
still need to adjust yourself to the right vibe. Remember — the coins are
everywhere! You just have to command your eyes to notice them.”
Initially this surprised her. She
could dismiss it as luck… or as some kind of trick… or as a momentary lapse of
her part. Then when it kept happening, it began to frustrate her. I helped her
shift that frustration to amusement by pointing out that she was really good at
finding bottle caps and smudges, and we had some laughs about that. She just
needed to adjust her mind a little bit more to notice the coins.
Finally she began to accept that
yes, there really are coins everywhere, and she only has to notice them. It
seemed like she was beginning to tell her eyes and her mind to get with the
program and start noticing the coins.
Emily has a competitive side, so I
played to that by challenging her to find more coins than me, which boosted her
motivation and desire to get good at it. She knows that technically it’s a fair
game, and she even gave herself an advantage by walking in front of me, so she
could be the first to spot new coins. And since she’s only 4’9″ inches tall,
she’s a lot closer to the ground than I am.
Gradually she got better at the
game. We went out yesterday and played again. In an hour of walking around some
hotels on the Vegas Strip, she found 46 cents: 1 quarter, 3 nickels, and 6
pennies. In that same time, I found only 6 cents. She won the game for the
first time and was pretty excited about it. And of course I gave her lots of
accolades for it, so as to encourage her to keep improving.
I dare say she’s probably better at
finding coins than I am now. She now knows there are coins everywhere, but she
also really gets into the playful and competitive spirit of the game, which is
much more exciting for her than it is for me. I think partly she likes knowing
that it’s a fair game that either of us can win, and there’s no reason she
can’t be at least as skillful as I am.
When it comes to creating a vibe of
playfulness and excitement, children can easily be more masterful than adults.
This is the same vibe we need to recreate as adults in order to manifest
whatever we desire.
It may sound silly to do this as an
adult, but it’s a game worth playing. When you’re out with friends sometime,
have a contest to see who can manifest the most money. You may not get too excited
about finding coins, but you may generate some excitement about trying to best
your friends in a silly contest. That silliness will actually help you get the
right vibe, thereby improving your ability to manifest money.
Detachment
People often get confused about the
relationship between desire and detachment. Aren’t they diametrically opposed?
How can you have both at the same time? Isn’t desire a form of attachment?
No, these aren’t in conflict. They
coexist perfectly.
Let me ‘splain.
Desire is about what you wish to
create. You could describe this vibe as passion, excitement, or even lust. It’s
a delicious pool of emotions you summon by focusing on a new target. The
stronger your desire, the better, so amp it up!
Detachment, on the other hand, is
about how those desires ultimately manifest for you. When you become too
attached to when and how your desires show up, you screw up the manifesting
process. Instead of holding the vibe of playfulness and abundance, you start
sending out signals like concern, worry, and stress. Don’t do that!
Would you become stressed and
worried if you couldn’t find enough coins on the ground? Would that vibe
improve your performance? No, that would only lower your performance.
When you notice that you’re getting
frustrated, pause, breathe, and go back to the desire side. Hold that vision of
the creation you wish to experience, and wallow in the positive sensations of
being there in your heart, mind, and spirit. Know that physical reality will
soon catch up, as long as you keep holding the right vibe.
When you feel moved to take action
from a place of passion and excitement, not stress, then go ahead and let those
actions flow through you. It will seem to be more work to stop yourself —
you’ll feel like you’re chickening out and holding back if you stay still.
Follow your impulses. But don’t worry about the immediate results of those
actions. There may be some twists and turns along the way.
Power
When manifesting money, it’s
especially important that you don’t give your power away to money. This negates
your creative ability, and the money probably won’t arrive if you do that. This
is a VERY common mistake.
You can’t effectively wield the
power of manifestation by believing that you can manifest something you desire
(i.e. money) while simultaneously believing that something you desire has power
over you (i.e. money).
If you want to manifest money, you
CANNOT believe that money is a power source. Money cannot give you wealth or
abundance or happiness. It really can’t give you anything. Money just sits
there — all the power comes from you. If you believe that having more money
will give you any additional power at all, then you’re actually holding the
vibe that says, “I’m too weak to attract money.” You’ll have to get a job instead.
Think of it like this. If you want
to manifest money, but you believe that money is its own power source, then
deep down you’re giving money the power to say no to you. If money has power,
then it can refuse to show up.
Instead of this crazy wrong
approach, in your mindset and heartset, you must KNOW that you’re completely
100% dominant over money and that money is completely 100% submissive to you.
You’re in total command of it. If you order it to show up, it must obey you. It
has no power of its own. It cannot refuse you.
When you manifest money, you are
COMMANDING it to come into your reality. You’re the CREATOR. Money has no
choice but to obey you, but only if you wield your true power. If you give your
power away to money, then you empower money to deny your requests. Money will
say, “Well, if you’re letting me decide, then no, I’m staying over here.”
If you approach money like a power
source of its own, then by trying to manifest it, you’re really trying to
overpower it, and in such a contest you’ll usually lose. That contest, however,
is completely internal — and pretty much insane. It’s like trying to arm
wrestle yourself. How can you win? It’s a false reality you’re projecting
because you aren’t ready to fully wield your own power yet.
Remember that money is nothing but a
number. Or it’s pieces of metal and paper. How could it possibly be more
powerful than a conscious human being such as yourself?
If you think that once you have
money, you will become stronger, you’re crazy. Absolutely deluded! More likely
— if you actually did manifest money from that kind of vibe — you’d grow even
weaker. This would be a bad outcome for you, even though it seems like what you
want. You’d be a weak-minded, weak-hearted person with more money, and
you’d still see the money as more powerful than you, even while it’s in your possession.
You’d then become attached to it and afraid of losing it because you’d still
mistakenly see it as a power source. It would become a source of security for
you, a constantly vulnerable one. The more money you had, the more paranoid
you’d become about losing it. This would really mess you up big time. So be
very, very glad that you naturally attract less money when you think of money
as a power source. If you invite money into your life from that crazy frame of
giving away your power, then money will become your Master, and you will be
forever its slave. Don’t even go there!
If money has no power, then why
manifest it at all? In truth, you don’t need to. But if you wish to manifest
money, then do it as a game. Money is a toy you can play with. Get excited
about the experience of manifesting money, but don’t put any attention into
what you’d do with the money once you have it. It’s merely a number.
If you desire something you think
money will give you, then focus on that desire directly, not on the money you
think you need to get it. Money may or may not be part of the manifestation
process.
Only focus on manifesting money
directly if you’re capable of seeing the money as a plaything, like a video
game score. It’s only something to manifest for fun, not something to get all
worked up and stressed about.
Once again, do NOT give your power
away to money. You must know that money is completely powerless. All the power
is within you, never out there.
Upgrading
When manifesting money, start small
and work up to larger amounts. See it as a score you’re aiming to increase, but
don’t put larger amounts on a pedestal by assuming they’re more difficult to
manifest.
I started with manifesting pennies
in the Summer of 2006. Then I graduated to nickels, dimes, and quarters. I
focused on quarters for several weeks. Then I progressed to dollars to $100 to
$1000 to $10K to $50K. Overall it took less than a year to go from manifesting
pennies to manifesting $50K. After that point I become more interested in
non-monetary manifesting and had some especially fun times with manifesting in
my social life — friends, mentors, and other yumminess. In fact, I honestly
feel that manifesting money is a bit boring compared to all the other cool
stuff you can manifest. It’s like playing a video game and obsessing over the
score. That can be fun for a while, but eventually you want to focus on more
interesting aspects of the game world.
If you can get good at manifesting
coins, you can manifest larger sums too. The process is the same. Only some
limiting beliefs of yours may stand in the way. But as you gradually upgrade to
larger sums, you can collapse those false beliefs.
Once Emily gets good at manifesting
coins and feels comfortable and confident with it, I’ll start challenging her
to manifest larger sums. She may not find money on the ground as often, but it
will show up in other ways.
Money comes to you through the
filters of your beliefs, but you don’t have to change your beliefs radically.
You just have to open enough of a portal in your beliefs to allow different
sums to come to you.
Coins may be found on the ground
while you’re walking around. Bills will sometimes be found on the ground too.
Larger sums may manifest in the form of exchanges, business deals,
inheritances, inspired action, and other ways. Assume that those larger sums
are right in front of your face, staring at you and screaming at you to notice
them. You just have to tune your vibe to the right frequency to pick them up.
I’ve noticed that as I’ve shifted my
vibe to manifest larger sums of money and to manifest new experiences in other
parts of my life, I seem to fall out of resonance with manifesting smaller
sums. I’m not as good at manifesting coins as I was in 2006. That’s because my
vibe isn’t tuned in to the coin manifesting frequency as much. These days I’m
spending more time using the LoA to manifest cool social connections and travel
experiences. I’ve tuned my vibe to focus on that part of the perceptual
frequency. I also feel more excited and playful about manifesting in these
other areas as opposed to adding to my financial score.
Congruency
Every relationship in your life
contributes to the overall vibe you’re putting out. This includes all the
different ways you relate to money.
For example, if your job sucks and
doesn’t pay you very well, and you try to manifest money on the side, that
probably won’t work so well because each time you go to work at your job, you
risk re-triggering the vibe of feeling financially under-appreciated.
This is where lots of people get
stuck with the LoA. They put out conflicting vibes every day. They may
visualize having more money and feeling abundant and grateful, but then they go
to the grocery store, and they buy cheap, low quality food because in the back
of their mind, they’re saying to themselves that they can’t afford the good
stuff. And that naturally cancels out the vibe of abundance, so the result is
no change.
If your current circumstances cause
you to emit conflicting vibes, then even as you go through the motions of
acting in accordance with a scarcer financial situation than you’d like, keep
your vibe focused on that of abundance. The best way to do that is by holding
the heartset of gratitude. So even if you buy cheap, low-quality food, hold the
vibe that you’re grateful for it and that you appreciate it. Feel appreciative
that such food exists and that it’s within your budget. And then look at the
high quality stuff, and emotionally invite it into your life. If possible, find
one way in which you can splurge for higher quality items, like buying a few
organic apples, and feel grateful that you can do that. And when you eat those
apples, really enjoy them, and intend to receive more of the same.
But do NOT beat yourself up for not
being able to afford what you desire. That will only lower your vibe.
Do like I did with Emily when she
kept finding bottle caps and smudges. Praise yourself for succeeding at what
you’re already manifesting, and then command your senses to adjust to a more
abundant part of the spectrum of reality. Be patient with yourself — you’ll get
it.
Whenever you start feeling bad about
your financial situation, see that as a form of feedback. Let it become an
immediate trigger to refocus on your desires. Say to yourself, “Okay, obviously
I don’t want this. So what do I want instead?” Then think about happier
alternatives; allow your mind to go there, and let the resulting new vibe flow
through you.
Manifesting money is a fun
challenge. It’s definitely doable if you approach it from a place of
playfulness, knowing, and power. It does involve some discipline, but the
discipline is mental and emotional, not physical.
You aren’t going to let a 10-year
old girl kick your ass at this game, are you?
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